What new monster might emerge? If help finally comes to them, they may take it, and what if that long awaited help happens to come from a quarter we in the the west really, really don't like...
Arab is a broad classification, there is variety within western societies. As a student I and other girls were hassled by Saudi policemen who were in the UK for training. I remember thinking what hypocritical pigs they were, chasing after us and yelling, whereas, Jordanians, Lebanese, Kurds and Palestinian students, if they flirted, did so in restrained, entirely 'correct' courtly style. Old fashioned gentlemen. They may have been just as uxorious with their own women, or not, but Palestine has its own vocal, formidable and cultivated spokeswomen.
Don't know about their present or their potential future liberalism in respect of gay marriage. Or that of ultra orthodox Russians or Jewish people, as witnessed, lately.
It's zealotry that's the very devil. Fundamentalism of all kind and any kind. A zealot, a fundamentalist; Christian, Muslim, Jewish...of whatever religious faith, or indeed, secular persuasion, will always produce a justification for destruction.