Nicole Wilson
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A lot of agents will tell you on their website how many or percentages of new clients that come from the slush pile. If you were in their shoes, wouldn't you also be more willing to take someone on if someone you trusted knew them and how they worked? Job applications work similarly, too. And that's what this is: a job interview of sorts.It's so subjective. I guarantee you if you were in her circle of acquintances that would have tipped the scales in your favour. I'm sorry I just can't help that conclusion. I would hazard a guess that most agents publish more recommendations than any other submission. But agents are very precious about connecting with anyone directly. Maybe there is a way in to the circle of elusive light....I'm sure ....just ask .
You're right; it is subjective. But if they love your book but can't sell it, do you really want them to take it anyway? They feel the same way. They want to love your book but they also want be able to sell your book. It will do no good sitting on the agent's desk or in an editor's trash bin. Unfortunately that's the game we're in. Take it with a grain of salt and submit to more.
I apologize if this sounds really callous. That's not how I'm intending it. I just like to look at it from the agent's side and try to understand what they're going through as well.