• Café Life is the Colony's main hangout, watering hole and meeting point.

    This is a place where you'll meet and make writing friends, and indulge in stratospherically-elevated wit or barometrically low humour.

    Some Colonists pop in religiously every day before or after work. Others we see here less regularly, but all are equally welcome. Two important grounds rules…

    • Don't give offence
    • Don't take offence

    We now allow political discussion, but strongly suggest it takes place in the Steam Room, which is a private sub-forum within Café Life. It’s only accessible to Full Members.

    You can dismiss this notice by clicking the "x" box

Dandelion Break Shocked, I tell you. Shocked.

Children read dark books as well. We don't need to wrap them in cotton wool.

In my local (40min away) bookstore, there is a separate, cosy area for picture book and middle grade readers (and guardians) to go in and peruse - including MG horror which is growing in popularity. The Young Adult shelves are beside adult fantasy. Both have the light, the funny and the dark. I've eavesdropped on teenage browsers - they've talked about what they've seen on Tik Tok and instagram. They're exposed already. In their lives, many are experiencing very dark or very scary scenarios. Reading about a protagonist (living with the protagonist) as the character overcomes their dark and comes out the other side is hugely cathartic for them (as it is for adults).

Keeping young minds behind blinkered glasses may blind them to hope.
 
Umm what? We're telling preschool they have to solve climate change by recycling-when adults havent even been able to change daylight savings time BUT teens mustn't read 1984 or Dracula? I love the 18 up timeline too. On your 18th birthday you are gifted with nerves of steel and told there is no Santa Claus.

I mean I kind of agree about horror up until they do become teenagers. We used to protect little kids even in movies. It was a shock when Eisenstein let a baby carriage roll down dangerous stairs, now no one would even gasp. When Spielberg used pre teens in Jurassic Park there was an outcry from shrinks and he admitted he wouldn't let his own kids watch.

Until little ones can differentiate between fiction and reality give them happy worlds like Bluey where people take care of each other so they have a safe place where that is true-even if it's not at home.

But then let them explore dark places safely. They will have to live in the world where light only exists when you create it. Let them chose how to do that. Stop trying to keep them safe. They have to figure out how to bravely circumnavigate darkness, just like when they had to learn to walk wo you holding their hand.
 

Further Articles from the Author Platform

Latest Articles By Litopians

  • Sunnyside: A Man Without a Country
    I had good reason to believe Poland was “my” country; cashiers in Polish grocery stores would sp ...
  • Hooks
    It’s the word I keep encountering again and again when listening to interviews with agents and pub ...
  • Not an Ode to Howl
    I am privileged to belong to the Thursday Ladies of Letters, a writers’ group in Kota Kinabalu. It ...
  • Still Singing Those Songs
    I caught a sad news item concerning one of my music icons: Jimmy Cliff, who died at the age of 81… ...
  • Livers, and Maybe Gizzards Too
    American street food keeps getting re-invented: oysters, tripe soup, and chicken gizzards get replac ...
  • If Genres Were Dating
    Sci-fi’s office, its walls lined with the concept art of unbuilt cities. The Director watches Sci- ...
  • November – Brussels Sprouts
    For a long time, I thought Lancaster County didn’t have a rush hour. It turns out that before six, ...
What Goes Around
Comes Around!
Back
Top